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There is always hope

It was a real joy to speak with Davina McCall on her Begin Again Podcast recently, particularly because so much of what we discussed centred around hope, repair and the possibility of recalibration in relationships.

Emotional stability in relationships

So many women responded to the question “what do you want from a man in a relationship?” with the same answers: emotional stability, calm, peace and ease of communication. But emotional stability is one of those relationship qualities that people instinctively recognise, while often struggling to define.

The sandwich generation

In many Mediterranean societies, young adults living at home well into adult life has remained culturally normal, and with it a more reciprocal model of family care. In contrast, the British ideal of independence has often equated adulthood with distance: geographical, emotional and practical.

Sensory overload and intimacy

We often talk about intimacy as if it should be instinctive. As if, with the right person, it will simply click into place and feel effortless. For many neurodivergent people, especially those with ADHD, autism, or sensory processing differences, it rarely feels that simple.

Reflections on being a TV therapist

There were many things I loved about being part of the show. The themes were universal. The issues the couples brought into the room are the same ones I see every day in my practice. Communication breakdown, trust, mismatched expectations, the tension between autonomy and connection.