What a “porn addiction” really represents
Porn use is not simply a “bad habit”. It can be a symptom of unmet emotional and sensory needs. By addressing these needs directly, couples can work toward more connected, fulfilling sexual relationships.
Karen Doherty Coaching, Couples Coaching Brighton, Blog Category: Couples Connection.
Porn use is not simply a “bad habit”. It can be a symptom of unmet emotional and sensory needs. By addressing these needs directly, couples can work toward more connected, fulfilling sexual relationships.
Restoring emotional and sexual intimacy isn’t about more sex or different experiences – it’s about slowing down enough to notice what sex is standing in for.
I’ve done a lot of work on reframing intimacy in relationships on the blog recently because I think it’s important. After all, intimacy is one of the big topics that come up in my therapy room and a key focus when I’m working with couples.
Intimacy is a complex bond of emotional, spiritual, physical, sexual and intellectual connection.
We talk about sex all the time in therapy, but when I ask what intimacy means, most people default to physical acts. But intimacy is far broader. It’s energetic. Emotional. Psychological. It’s that reciprocal flow between two people.
Small gestures are the building blocks of emotional intimacy. They communicate, more powerfully than any grand pronouncements, that you see your partner, you value them, and you are invested in their well-being.
Feeling a disconnect or a lack of passion in your relationship is a common experience. The initial intensity of a new love affair naturally evolves over time. The good news is, finding ways to reconnect and reignite that spark is absolutely possible.
In this article Karen looks at the complexities of affair recovery. Giving you insights and strategies for navigating this difficult terrain.
Do you still like each other, maybe even still love each other?So, you’ve looked at your place in the world. Leaving isn’t easy, separated families don’t always thrive. The grass always looks a bright shade of green on the other side, but the reality can be very alarming and hostile.If you were struggling to balance […]